A Little Bit Married: How to Know When It's Time to Walk Down the Aisle or Out the Door

By: Hannah Seligson

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Synopsis: Quiz: Are You &“A Little Bit Married&”? We&’ve been dating for more than a year. I talk on the phone with his parents. We go on vacations with each other&’s families. We&’re planning to live together (or already do). I often wonder, &“Where is this going?&”Do I just wait around? How can I be sure this person is really &“The One&”? If this sounds familiar, you are not alone. It&’s the dawning of an age when we&’re not in any hurry to reach the milestones—house, spouse, and kids—that once marked adulthood, although we&’d like to get there . . . soon. In this practical, no-holds-barred guide, Hannah Seligson delivers an eye-opening look at why serial long-term relationships have become the new romantic rite of passage. From making life-changing sacrifices for your partner to dealing with doubts, Seligson explains how to make the most of this ambiguous state, including: • What are the signs s/he&’s ready for long-term commitment? • How do you make decisions about careers, cohabitation, and religion when there isn&’t a ring? • What&’s the best way to mention the &“M&” word to a commitment-phobe? • How long should you stay A Little Bit Married before tying the knot . . . or moving on? Combining expert advice with compelling anecdotes, A Little Bit Married will provide you with the roadmap you need to survive the life stage post–&“Let&’s Do It!&” and pre–&“I Do.&”